The Crazy Rants of Samantha BurnsCharity Giving or Publicity Stunt?
Michelle Malkin has a link to a story about an anonymous person who picks up the tab for a proud father and his marine son.
Certain details of this story brought back memories, specifically the part of the anonymous charity person insisting his name be kept private. Someone a great deal wiser told me, "Charity giving should always be done completely anonymous, and never be used to seek self significance". Unfortunately, I slaughtered up a paraphrase of what was originally said so eloquently.
Believe in the army or not, what this person did in the restaurant for the marine and his father was supremely classy. The person was not giving in order to see personal attention, to promote any ego, or to brag about the giving. This person gave because of a belief in something; something he or she believed was the right thing to do.
Far too often I've see people practically put out press releases or draw attention to themselves when they give out charity donations. How many times has a celebrity or big business person created his/her own fake generosity persona by telling the world how wonderful they are because they gave to this or that cause? That is not class; that is self promotion. If you want to give, keep it private. Enjoy the knowledge in confidence that you did the right thing for what you believe.
Yes, I know big names often lend their names to a charity to help draw attention the charity. Perhaps this is generous, or perhaps it’s just another attempt to seek the lime light. Might these gifts be an attempt to wipe away a feeling of guilt about their lucky fortunes in life? I possibly have a cynical view, and who am I to fairly judge what’s in their hearts?
All I can relay is the importance of following your belief, rather than ensuring a pat on the back is brought in your direction. Kudos mystery person. Kudos to you.
Update: The marine story is hugely popular. The Land of Ozz has an article on the technical issues of having a really good story.
Update 2: Michelle Malkin has found another story, this time about Little Caesars.
Comments
I was taught as you were. It is a little sickening, isn't it, the way some people practically stand on a street corner, loudly proclaiming how generous they are?
Posted by: P Campbell | July 30, 2005 11:42 PM