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December 12, 2005

You Decide

I'm wondering if this woman has any right to be walking the streets - whether her Munchausen's Syndrome by Proxy reasoning is good enough to clear her name - or should she spend time in prison?

An Oklahoma City woman has been charged for child abuse after injecting feces into her two and a half year old daughter.

The woman visited her daughter at the Children's Hospital in Oklahoma City, but was caught on video injecting a substance believed to be human waste into her daughter's catheter using syringes.

It is said that the woman later confessed to the injection, stating that it was her way to get attention.

Munchausen's Syndrome by Proxy is a parenting disorder where parents, usually the mother, fabricate symptoms in their children, thus subjecting the child to unnecessary medical tests and/or surgical procedures.
I'm sure there are some people out there who believe this reasoning is good enough to allow the woman to walk free or with a light fine, but I'm sure there are also other who insist that she deserves life in prison, or at least some prison time.

What's your opinion?

Well, whatever the end result is, I certainly won't be voting for her for any mother of the year award.

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September 27, 2005

BCTF Strike?

I may not like the idea of this because I am a strong supporter of the public education system, but Counterfactual has a point that the BCTF (British Columbia Teacher's Federation) made an error in their speech on the teacher's strike.

Apparently, the union lawyer, Diane MacDonald stated, "In the past, there have been lengthy strikes and lockouts without serious consequences for students or the education system".

I'm with Counterfactual on this one; they were rather lame to say that because it makes school seem like a waste of time.

Oh, it's okay to have a strike because school isn't worth your time, kids, anyhow.

Heck, I wouldn't be the person I am today without public school or have the knowledge I have (and you can disagree all you want, but I consider myself not too dumb), but when I hear this excuse for striking, I wonder if my knowledge would have been acquired better elsewhere - like on the streets where the kids will be hanging while the strike is in place.

I hope the teachers get what they need if it's truly needed; but to the union, don't denigrate the education system by saying, in not so many words, it's a waste of time.

I must say that they seem to have good intentions for the strike. I know that it's getting pathetic with the cr*ppy books (and lack of), overfilled classroom size (including some classes where there aren't enough desks for all the students; up to 40 in a class sometimes), and poor, lousy pay for teachers who are educating and caring for the kids when the majority of parents can't do it themselves adequately or at all (BC teachers are some of the lowest paid in the country even though BC education graduates have worldwide acclaim for top quality education training).

Anyhow, I'm sure some will disagree, and that's fine, it's a losing battle arguing about education because everyone's entitled to their own opinion. Just remember, I win! HA!

nya nya nya nya nyaaaa

That's right, I'm a baby. I'm taunting you like a child. I guess that must be my education shining through right now, eh. I'm still thinking at a 5th Grade level, lol.

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September 14, 2005

Junk Food != Points

Okay, you can disagree all you want, I really don't know how it is in your area to judge it, but I often think that schools do a great job in raising kids since teachers are trained well, at least in this area, and are devoted to nurturing the best in our societies future. But sometimes, I'm a tad ashamed of the education system's choices in how to raise the kids.

What they are doing now in some schools here is giving points to children who bring healthy lunches into class and those who don't have healthy lunches don't get points. I know that giving points to the best behaved kids is good because it rewards and encourages good behaviour, but to do this with food is an issue.

I want to know how teachers can fault kids for what they bring to class. Why should they be punished with no points when they aren't the ones who pack their lunches? This sounds like they are discriminating kids who are raised by junk food junky parents.

What about kids that come from low income homes? Parents who are less well off can't afford the pricey organic c**p. And, how are they going to rate what's junk and what isn't? Johnny, you have an apple, but it has a bruise on it, so you only get half a point. Janey, you bought that banana from a grocery store and not an organic health food store, so you only get half a point too. Jo-eeyy... a bag of CHIPS??? You are suspended for the day.

Further, what about kids with eating disorders? Are they allowed to force kids to fail in achieving points merely because they have a handicap? What kind of message is that sending to the children that it's okay to discriminate against others with disorders or diseases?

What's next? Are they going to hand out points for lunches with no meat in them? Vegitarians all over the place will be crying out, "my kid can't be around meat, ban it from the schools". Does that sound at all like the peanut butter craziness that is in schools now? Sure does. My kid can't be around peanut butter, "allergies"; my kid can't be around perfume, "allergies"; my kid can't be around meat, "vegan meat attack". My kid suffers from VMA, which means s/he can't touch meat or s/he'll have a serious medical reaction.

I'm not saying those allergies aren't real, but they sure weren't around when I was in school. It's easy for some to fall for trends. Kinda similar to putting kids on ritalin when they don't have ADHD or ADD.

What's worse is that some of the kids out there say to other kids, "you're mommy gives you junk food" as if they are bad mothers because they gave her kids home cooked banana muffins.

And, what about cookies baked from grandma?

This puts a lot of peer pressure on kids because those that get the most points get a prize, so the kids really get on each other for what they think is junk food, like the banana muffin case or grandma's cookies. You know, for what seems to be a very liberal-minded education regime, they are really enforcing segregation between kids. I thought liberals were all about the fluffy love-thy-neighbour and hurt-no-fly stuff; how can they be this way if they are causing prejudice between the ranks? Segregation through food... what's next?

Anyhow, when it comes to teachers, who are they to tell our kids what's good and what isn't when it comes to food choices? Last I heard chocolate is good for women, so shouldn't we be encouraging it?

PS- MR.BIG told me I'd earn techie brownie points for using the != sign to mean "does not equal", is this true?

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September 07, 2005

Yelling Bad, Spanking Bad

Corporal punishment has been unacceptable for some time now and yelling is now considered to have a negative lasting impact. So, what do parents do now that they have to change the pattern of discipline that they were raised with?

I was spanked, too, as a child, so I know that it's difficult to know the right thing to do now that I am the disciplinarian (and yes, I realise that a lot of psychobabble tells me that I'm wrong for calling it discipline, but SUCK IT, I say it as I see it). As a nanny, I came into this household following the discipline that the father used and by using what I was taught in university with how to correct behaviour.

Well, at this point, I'd joke with you about how I lock the kids in a room and torture them by making them watch the news all day rather than playing their video games, but if I did mention that, some idiot out there would probably take it seriously, do it to their kid, then sue me for making their kid psychologically unstable, or something. That's just how stupid the legal system can be sometimes when a person is able to sue others over the idiotic choices that the person makes.

Once again, I rambled. This article is about using alternative strategies of discipline rather than corporal punishment and yelling. It is believed that yelling can have more devastating impacts on children than spanking did.

Some alternative strategies of discipline mentioned in a msn family article:

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August 03, 2005

Parenting Amidst the Muck

More and more parents have to protect their children from the mainstream culture, be it violence, substance abuse, the typical objectification of women in the music scene, and the list goes on. Is this because society is becoming less focused on the family and more on working and general monetary greed that we tend to ignore the affect all of it is having on future generations? Perhaps we are becoming more egocentric than ever and we say f**k it to everyone and everything else. On the other hand, it could be the reducing roll of church and Christianity's rein on our culture. Who knows for sure and who really knows what's best for us all. All I know is that it can be pretty tough at times deciding what children can and can't do, see, or hear these days.

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August 01, 2005

The Old Fashioned Way - Excluding Quebec

Alright. Admit it! You forgot to save for your children's educations, right? Last week your kids were just born and now they are hitting you up for money. You could hunker down and take out a bank loan or try and cash in some of that retirement money, that is if you are lucky enough to have a credit rating or smart enough to have put a few cents away for retirement. Like I said, you could do that... or you could try to get it like so many others have tried...

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July 25, 2005

School Incidentals

Child care systems such as daycares, after school centres, and school systems can be quite the same at times. Anywhere you have children, you seem to have adults griping about them. A Kindergarten child that I care for had a tough start at the beginning of the school year: he was hitting, running with scissors, pinching, and just about any other scary thing you can think of in a classroom situation. He was not diagnosed with any disorder; his issue was having a lack of social contact, and not to mention all of the major changes in his life right at the start of the school year. His mom moved into a new house, his dad moved into a new house, his nanny at the same time quit, and I entered their lives.

Talk about stress!

Anyhow, the point I'm trying to get to is that his teacher had no problem complaining about him to me right in front of the child. I often had to ask him to go play so that he wouldn't have to continue listening to what he did wrong that day from a teacher whom he looked up to.

It's important for a child to know that what s/he did was wrong, like punching if that's the problem de jour, but dwelling on it can have a negative effect on a child.

All I needed to know was that something happened and not hear about the problem repeatedly. After a while, I was so sick of hearing the griping about what he did wrong, that I stopped getting him at the top of the hill where the kids were let out from school, and I waited for him to come down the hill to me. The teacher didn't complain so much once I started doing that and only called me up to talk with her if there was a serious problem that day.

Yes, child care and teaching are challenging occupations - I should know - but adults need to know that children have ears, emotions, and brains. As www.dirtyolive.net writes to parents, "the child can hear and internalize everything you say - from a younger age than you might think." They know what their mentors are saying about them. Sometimes, it felt like we were talking about him behind his back in front of him. That's bizarre and a little repulsive... would you get away with that in front of a boss, co-worker, partner, friend, or family member? Children are people, too, and they need the same respect.

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